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Our minds often trick us into believing we have more control than we do. We replay conversations, trying to find a better way we could have responded. We worry about future outcomes that are completely out of our hands. This constant striving for control over uncontrollable things is a fast track to burnout and mental exhaustion.

Self-compassion isn't a one-time fix or a destination you arrive at. It's an ongoing journey, a muscle you build with consistent, gentle practice. The goal isn't to be perfectly compassionate to yourself all the time, but to create rituals that remind you to return to a place of kindness and understanding, especially when you need it most.

Every single person experiences self-doubt, makes mistakes, and grapples with imperfections. When we acknowledge this common humanity, we begin to dismantle the walls of isolation we've built around ourselves.

Instead of, "I messed up everything," try, "This is a difficult moment, and I'm doing my best."

At its core, self-compassion is about treating yourself with the same warmth, understanding, and care you would offer to a dear friend facing similar difficulties.