The journey to a more peaceful life isn't about eliminating all stress or uncertainty. That's impossible. Instead, it's about building the internal muscles to navigate life's inevitable challenges with grace and resilience. The practice of focusing on what you can control is that muscle.

Self-compassion isn't a one-time fix or a destination you arrive at. It's an ongoing journey, a muscle you build with consistent, gentle practice. The goal isn't to be perfectly compassionate to yourself all the time, but to create rituals that remind you to return to a place of kindness and understanding, especially when you need it most.