The journey to a more peaceful life isn't about eliminating all stress or uncertainty. That's impossible. Instead, it's about building the internal muscles to navigate life's inevitable challenges with grace and resilience. The practice of focusing on what you can control is that muscle.

Our minds often trick us into believing we have more control than we do. We replay conversations, trying to find a better way we could have responded. We worry about future outcomes that are completely out of our hands. This constant striving for control over uncontrollable things is a fast track to burnout and mental exhaustion.